Let love not be a relationship

As per Osho:

Mantra, relationship and love are totally different things. Love is never a relationship and relationship is never love. Love relates but it is not a relationship. Relationship is a dead thing. Love is flowing.

So the first thing to be reminded of: love is never a relationship. Then something else is masquerading as love. May be u r searching for a husband or a wife- u r searching for some security, u r searching for some structure.

Love is a state of ur being, not a relationship. Loverelates but never becomes a relationship.

Be a loving person rather than in a love relationship- because relationships happen one day and disappear another day. They are flowers; in the morning they bloom, by the evening they r gone.

YOU BE LOVING PERSON

But people find it very difficult to be a loving person, so they create a relationship- and befool that way that "Now I am a loving person because I am in a relationship." And the relationship may be just one of MONOPOLY, POSSESSIVENESS, EXCLUSIVENESS. Relationship may be just out of FEAR, may not have anything to do with love. Relationship may be just a kind of security- financial or something else.

People want to prepare themselves for love. Let me tell u nobody can go prepared into a love relationship.

Nobody can go prepared. When u r too much prepared that very preparedness prevents love. LOVE HAS TO HAPPEN! When it happens it is almost from the unknown. It comes.... surrounds u.... drives u crazy..... into unknown directions.... into unknown dimensions. It is ALWAYS a SURPRISE. You cannot plan for it.

Love happens on its own. You need not be worried about it. You cannot make it happen. It is beyond you. It is far bigger than you. SO LEAVE THIS TO GOD.