last time I wrote that love is a spontaneous feeling, it just sweeps u off ur feet. Yah, but what i find in couples these days is that their love does not last long. No here i dont intend to preach anyone but just sharing my views. Some of u may or may not agree with me but i dont intend to have a debate here. Just trying to analyse myself why love fails inspite of such weighty promises.
Lack of commitment, lack of sincerity, lack of time, me myself attitude, unwillingness to surrender, looking for perfection, having preconceptions about love and the main problem is your own insecurities.
Firstly, love yourself, it does not mean to be selfish. Here i mean accept yourself with all your physical, emotional,mental, spiritual n financial deformities n lackings. Have courage to accept yourself as u r. Never try to remain in denial. If so you'll never be able to grow in anyway any horizon, you'll be stagnant resulting in hopelessness.And hopelessness means end, The END of life,rejection of the precious Gift which Almighty God has presented us. So here is a request to all those who seek lasting love to take this first step of SELF ACCEPTANCE.
If u accept your body, soul completely as the most beautiful gift from God then it will be simpler for you to accept your partner with all his or her flaws. Every moment you try to hunt for flaws in you n your partner, then definitely you'll have all negative images all over. And if you try to find good, acceptable qualities you'll find them. If you keep pondering over your shortcomings then you'll keep doubting your partner also. if he or she really loves you because you dont love yourself, so how can she ever love you. That way u block the positive energy coming to you from the other side also and thus eventually landing up in a messy love story.
I think Love does not mean something developing between two perfect human beings but Its the development of some heavenly feelings emerged from the sharing of imperfections of two people.
Love yourself and find out what you have in you to make her or him happy in real sense.
I am sleepy now so I'll take your kind permission to resume this topic tomorrow. So Gud Night n Take care.
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